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Monday, December 5, 2011

Packin' Up!



Today we’re packin up, getting ready to head out to Mississippi tomorrow for Jonathan and Brooke’s wedding on Saturday!  It will be an exciting time, and a very busy one!

On Wednesday, we will be getting adjusted to our place there, having dinner with Jon & Brooke and going to church.  Thursday there will be a lot of wedding preparations, and Friday is more of the same.  Also, my other family members, Kathryn and her family, Stephen and his girl, and Grandad and his “girl” are coming in on Friday afternoon.  After the rehearsal on Friday evening, we’re having a meal all together, and then it’s time for the Fun Family Foto Shoot!  We’ll be wearing jean and white for a big family photo.

Then on Saturday is the big day!  My husband is preaching the wedding service, with Uncle Jack doing the vows.  Almost every one in the family will have a part: Kathryn is playing piano, Stephen is best man, Sharon is a bridesmaid, and Jason is a groomsman.  What a day that will be!

We’ll be getting back in late on the following Tuesday night.  If I’m able, I will try to post some pictures while we’re gone, for folks to enjoy!  But if I’m unable to post for some reason, you know I’ll be back by the end of next week.

Pray for safety for all involved, and that the Lord will be glorified! 



Flying on for Jesus,

Friday, December 2, 2011

6 Tips for Wives

Always love your honey!


Being young and ignorant, I felt I was ready for marriage at age 19.  Looking back, I suppose I was mostly ready, or about as ready as I could be, given my situation.  I had very little guidance growing up, and courtship and marriage was no difference.  I think it took me about fifteen years to really get into the swing of things and begin being the wife God meant me to be. 

What could have helped me is if someone took me aside and quietly explained some very important principles to me.  Perhaps some folks did; maybe I just didn’t listen.  Regardless, here are some things which I know now, being very happily married for almost 28 years.  Most of these things are very simple, and you’ve probably heard them before, but it doesn’t hurt to hear them again!
  
    1. He is different than you!  Understand that he is a different person than you are, and operates differently.  Many of the things he does simply will not make sense (but then again, you will not make much sense to him, either!)  He is his own man and marches to the beat of a different drummer, but that’s a good thing.  You certainly don’t want a robot for a husband!  Learn to appreciate the different ways he responds, though you will probably never really understand him.  As you learn to become thankful for his ways, your marriage will grow!


    2. Do not try to change him!  Not only is he a different person, but he will not be molded by you.  The only one who can truly mold him is Christ!  As you see faults in his character, remember that he needs your prayers.  Perhaps God allows you to see these faults so you can pray for him.  It is doubtful that anyone knows him as well as you do; “Who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”  If you don’t pray for him in these areas, no one else will.
 Never harp at him, nag, or correct him.  He will find out soon enough that he is wrong, if he is.  Allow him to grow.

    3. Understand that he will make mistakes; sometimes he will make some whoppers!  But then again, so will you.  Allow him to make mistakes and learn from them, even if it is terribly inconveniencing to you.  He will learn, and eventually things will smooth out.

    4. NEVER complain about him to your friends; if you have a problem, work it out with your husband.  If you need counseling or prayer, talk to your pastor and/or his wife!  But to involve a friend in your marital problems is to emasculate your man, and dig a pit for your marriage’s coffin.  That also goes for complaining to your mother, his mother, or anyone else.  This is perhaps one of the hardest things to do, but it’s also the best thing to do.  This practice alone has probably saved many a marriage!


    5. Let the man provide, like the Lord wants him to.  God calls him “The savior of the body,” and that is what he is.  Let him take care of you.  When the hard times come financially – and they will – you may be tempted to run out and find a way to provide.  But allow him to provide for you, and you will be free to attend to other important needs.


   6. Remember that life is not forever.  Keep the honey flowing while you have it, because someday his arms will not be there to wrap around you in the cold of the night.  No matter how long you are married, it is never long enough when you outlive your spouse.

The last one is the one that really gets me, now that I’m older and health issues have crept up.  I didn’t realize that they would come, and I guess I thought that now was forever.  Now I understand that someday perhaps one of us will be alone, and I want to enjoy My Beloved while both of us are together.

Let’s take our marriages up to a higher level this year, starting with us ladies!  


Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Money-Saving Ideas When Taking Kids Out to Eat

Keep a little bit of dough in your pocket!


As a family, we try to take the kids out to eat about once a week.  Because we live in such a small place (a 320 square foot motorhome,) it’s nice to get the family around a real table every once in a while.
 
1.      Pick a cheap place!  Perhaps this goes without saying, but McDonald’s is cheaper than Taco Bell, which is cheaper than Wendy’s, which is cheaper than Cracker Barrel, which is cheaper than Applebee’s!  For the most part, we eat at fast-food restaurants, because kids like them better most of the time, and they are also cheaper.

2.      Order from the dollar menu!  Save big expenses like Happy Meals for such big deals like birthdays, etc.  Think of it this way: if you have 3 children, and each of them get a Happy Meal ($2.99, $3.49, or $3.99,)  you could be spending anywhere from $9 to $12 just for some hamburgers, fries, and drinks.  (Their meal may be happy, but yours is a Sad Meal!)  Besides that, many times a portion gets tossed in the trash and wasted!  Since waste is basically money down the drain, that’s a no-no!  Save money by getting each of them a dollar hamburger and let them split an order of fries.

3.      Eat smaller!  Remember that whopper burgers also mean whopper calories!  A practice that they have in Oregon is that there is always a calorie count on each item on the menu, right beside the item.  That was an eye-opening experience for me.  I discovered that my favorite hamburger is around 1000 calories, not to mention the fries!!  Needless to say, I had to make some adjustments to my order.

Kids don’t need tons of calories either.  A small drink can have anywhere from 110-160 calories, and that can add up even on a child.  Trying to keep your portions small will save you money twice – once when buying the food, and again in not having to go to the doctor’s as much with weight-related issues!

4.      Drink water at meals.  It’s unbelievable how much they charge for a soda; anywhere between $1.29 to $2.99!!  Instead of ordering that combo you usually get, order the burger and water.  You’ll leave just as full.

5.      Do lunch instead of dinner.  Sometimes we do splurge and take the kids to a place like Hometown Buffet or Cracker Barrel.  But it’s best to do that for lunch.  Sometimes we even have a late lunch and save a ton of money!  Many of the buffets carry their lunch pricing until 4pm, so if you have an early dinner, it can save you bucks.

6.      Everybody order kids’ meals!  Sometimes we go to a place that allows adults to order off the children’s menu.  When we do that, we still tip as though we ordered adult meals, because we know that the waitress does just as much work. 

7.      Don’t short the waitress!  One place you do not want to skimp is the tip – make it worth someone’s while to wait on you.  We have all heard of the preacher who shorted the waitress’s tip, and then wondered why she would never listen to the gospel!  Let that not be said of any of us.  I learned, especially with a large family, that it is a very good testimony if we try to leave our table somewhat neat, and leave a substantial tip.  In my mind, that’s what Christians do.  If you can’t afford a tip, then go fast food.

8.      Look for specials, like Kids Eat Free Night!  Some places have them twice a week like Tuesdays and Saturdays.  Some places offer two children’s meals free if you buy one adult meal, and some places offer just one.   Also, you need to be careful that you buy the qualifying meal, or you may not get anything free!  (Ask me how I know!)  Again, tip as though you were paying for everything.  Waitresses are still on their feet working no matter how much you get for free.

Next time you feel the squeeze of your four walls,  go out to eat…cheaper!

Don't keep rolling on hungry, roll on happy!

Monday, November 28, 2011

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SHARON & JOHANNA!!!

The birthday girls!

Jason gave Sharon a bouquet of flowers!

"Ooooo!  Look what I got!"


I can’t believe it, but it’s true!  Sharon just turned 17 years old on Saturday!

And Johanna turns 11 years old today!!

Will somebody please tell me how that happened? 

Where have the years gone? 

I remember when they were little, hearing people tell me, “They grow so fast.  Enjoy them while they’re young.”  But in the midst of sleepless nights and sibling fights during the day, I would think to myself, “I sure hope so!”  God gave grace for that time, and now they’re just about grown.

Maybe you’re mired in the bog of the constant activity of little children, and you have trouble “seeing the forest for the trees.”  I’ve been there.  I know what that’s like.  And I know you’ve heard it before: time really does fly by!

Sharon & Johanna, you’ve become wonderful young ladies, and I am so eager to see what the Lord has in store for you!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Money-Saving Recipe: Grandad’s Famous Carcass Soup!

It's good for what ails you!
One of my favorite parts of the Thanksgiving celebration is the leftovers!  How wonderful it is that the Lord not only blesses us, but He blesses us abundantly!!  Never is that more true than at Thanksgiving. 

When I was growing up, all my relatives would get together, and we would have a tremendous amount of food.  Naturally, there were leftovers.   Since my parents were Depression Babies, nothing ever went to waste.  So the next day, Mom and Dad would make the Best Soup Ever, lovingly dubbed “Carcass Soup,” in reverence to the poor turkey carcass that gave itself for our Thanksgiving feast.

This particular soup was eagerly anticipated by us hungry young-uns, and the old-uns alike, so the recipe became one of those passed-down-through-the generations type of recipes.  Now, no Thanksgiving celebration could be complete with my own children without a large pot of Grandad’s Famous Carcass Soup simmering on the back burner on Black Friday.

Since becoming an adult, I discovered that many people cook up a juicy twenty-five pound turkey on Thanksgiving Day only to turn around and throw the carcass away, or to feed it to their cats!!  Making Carcass Soup is a great, tasty way to be good stewards of what God has given to us!

Here’s the recipe:
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1 Carcass of turkey, or deli chicken, or other roasted chicken
1 c chopped onion
1 c chopped celery
1 T salt
1/2 t pepper
4-6 c water
2 T powdered chicken boullion
½ c barley (optional)

Combine above.  Bring to boil and simmer until meat is falling off the bones.  Remove carcass.  Add 2 c egg noodles to broth and continue simmering until tender.  Meanwhile, remove chicken from carcass & add back to broth.  Serve or cool to skim the fat from the top; then reheat and serve.
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Enjoy!  If you let me know you tried it and liked it, I’ll tell Grandad!  It would make his day.

Rolling on with a full tummy, 

Monday, November 21, 2011

5 Ways to Spice Up Your Marriage This Thanksgiving (or any time!)!








In this day of hectic schedules and electronic distractions, it becomes more and more important to make the extra effort to put a little – or a lot! – zip to marriage.  Whether we’ve been married for twenty eight days or twenty-eight years (as I have!!) these tips can be a help to us as we try to make this Thanksgiving time even more special.

I heard a preacher the other day mention that Thankfulness is really “Thinkfulness,” taking a bit of time to think about the blessings I’ve received, and also to be thankful for who has benefitted my life.  If we really think about it, everything we have and everything we are comes from someone else.  As Lincoln once said, “All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.”

So today, let’s take some time to think about the most important relationship we have in this world: our marriage.  Here’s an acrostic with five thoughts on giving your marriage a lift this holiday season:

Take time to greet each other with a smile every morning!
                This may sound stupid, but I just started to do this recently.  Every morning I get up earlier than everyone else, so my mind is already on step 5 by the time they all open their eyes.  I often have some big theory, plan, idea, or question working around in my head by the time I first see my husband in the morning.  And sometimes, there’s some irritating thing that has happened.  To greet him with a smile takes an effort, especially if there are pressing matters, but it has made our mornings and whole days much more smooth!

Hug every day!
                Perhaps this goes without saying, but a hug every day is a must!  It keeps the embers glowing.

Inquire how the other is doing!
                Again, this is a no-brainer, but those of us who are married beyond recongnition often forget the most simple – and most important – of things.  Communication is the backbone of marriage, and a simple, “So how did you sleep last night?” can help someone get over the morning grumpies.  Perhaps it’s just a question asked sincerely, “How was your day?”  Little things that show we care are often the best things.

Nothing replaces physical intimacy!
                The hugs, the talks, the questions are all good and have their place, but nothing replaces physical intimacy.  God made you one flesh, and it’s important to keep the embers going and let it flare up…often!

Know that God supports our efforts!
                God is behind marriage!  It was His design for couples to be married – happily.  So understand that, with  every effort you put into strengthening your marriage, God puts more.  It is up to us to do the natural, and He does the supernatural.  Many times, however, we are too lazy or selfish to do the natural part, and so nothing gets done.  “We are laborers together with God” 1 Corinthians 3:9

It’s been said that “Divine Grace works on the lines of human effort.”  It’s not enough just to trust God to work, our own human effort must make an investment.

So let’s put some "Thinkfulness" into our Thanksgiving season this year, and enjoy some of the spice!



Friday, November 18, 2011

Thwarting Your Family's Predator

Everything I ever learned about parenting all in one post!




The Predator is on the move.  As we go blissfully through our daily lives, Satan is prowling through our homes. 

And he is seeking a choice morsel of human soul.  

Satan is targeting our children.

Just as the man-eating lions targeted individuals for their meals, Satan has targeted our children. 1 Peter 5:8 states, “your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour.”   Whether we are aware of it or not, there is a great battle being fought in the world  - and our children are the objective.  Satan has deceived an unbelievable number of our second generation, telling them that Christianity is simply not worth it.  Many others have been paralyzed for one reason or another, rendering them numb, useless in the service of the Lord.  It is a spiritual epidemic sweeping our nation, taking with it our most precious possession: our children.  They are streaming out of our church doors by the thousands, their arms tightly linked with the world, walking lock-step (whether they realize it or not) with the Predator.


Here are some tips I have learned from the real experts, those that have raised godly adult children:

  1. Have a joyful attitude!  No one wants what you have if what you have is misery.
  2. Be real!  If you don’t truly love God and want to serve Him, what makes you think your children will?
  3. Make God your life!  Remember that children are individuals, and they will choose different hobbies than you.  If the Lord is simply a hobby, the kids will simply select something else to enjoy.
  4. Discipline early!  If you discipline early and discipline correctly, you will not have to discipline for long.
  5. Make your children your ministry!  God has given them to you as a stewardship to Him.  They are not yours, they are His.  Teach and train them as He would want you to, and you will not go wrong.
  6. Develop strong relationships with each of your children!  The conduit through which your values pass from one to another is relationship.  If you do nothing else, strive to foster a deep bond with each or your children.
  7. Have an excellent marriage!  Do whatever it takes to make it work; pursue your mate with energy and passion.  The effort pays off in your family.
  8. Include your children in ministry!  Clean the church, sing together, work a bus route, or visit a nursing home together.
  9. Keep communication lines open!  Always be aware of slight nuances in young peoples’ responses to you. 
  10. Pray, pray, pray!  Work like it all depends on you, and pray like it all depends on God.

Satan is always on the prowl, hungry for human souls.  Moving along the fence you have erected, he pushes it, looking for areas of weakness.  Check your fence carefully; he WILL be coming along to look for weak links.  THINK about your family, your unity, your marriage, your relationships. 

Remember that your inside fortifications, your relationships, must be strong.  When your relationships are strong, the outside influences will be ineffective.

Keep rolling on for Jesus, dear ones!


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